7 Reasons Your Spouse Will Leave You

I went into the blogsphere yesterday to check out other bloggers with larger audiences and see what’s happening there. Just sniff around. I got a little rocked. I noticed that there are a lot of people selling stuff, selling ideas but also selling stuff, classes on how to have an intimate relationship, how to write, how to blog, how to cook, how to “make him go wild,” and how to use supplements to enhance everything. Pretty quickly I decided I should go get a law job. I don’t want to be part of that pack – the fear-mongering, huckstering, selling stuff of questionable value successful personal growth blogger pack. I don’t want to tell people what’s wrong with them so they’ll think I have some secret about how to feel better as a human being living on this earth, at this time, and pay me for it. I have no secret.

Here’s the secret: Move away from the pumpkins, move toward stuff that feels better. (http://www.livingeveryminuteofit.com/?s=pumpkin) Try to have a nice time. Try not to be an a-hole as much as possible. Brush your teeth. Trust the universe (Gd). Keep breathing. Even now. That’s what I got.

So I spent a while being confused because as mentioned I’m feeling very next-ish these days, like, “What’s next?” and then I realized what’s next is going to come regardless of any great initiative-launching on my part. I’m starting a new meeting. I’m volunteering for Ax’s kindergarten class prep. I’m planning some travel to see family. I’m improving my backhand. I’m being of service in various ways as best as I can. I’m continuing this blog with no agenda other than to keep going. And I’m taking care of myself so I can take care of my family and my community. It’s enough for now. It’s plenty. I’m going to try to have a nice time. And keep breathing. That’s what’s next.